Happy late Thanksgiving and Merry early Christmas! Turns out I have one fussy baby. I spent a week trying to figure out if he has colic or gas, if he is hungry or tired, or if he just likes to cry. He is a great breastfeeder. Little porker is getting chubby and is hungry all the time! I think he does get gas too, but I've found that, if he gets overtired....forget it. He won't go to sleep and nothing helps. Not even nursing. So I am really working to make sure he takes a nap before he gets too tired.
I tried gas drops, probiotics, cut out caffeine, and even formula. Non of it helped, and he wouldn't even take the bottle at all. It was just making him mad and he gagged when he tasted the formula :(
But he does really really well when he takes nice long naps. He's like a happy calm baby when he nurses, has wake time, then takes a long nap. I'm working on getting him in this routine better.
So you know me....I NEED a routine. Thank God we are finally falling back into a good routine with a baby in the house. Honestly a routine makes me feel happy, calm, and thankful. Here is what I am aiming for. I am 4 weeks postpartum now and want to start doing C25K next week.
This isn't listing times, or every single time I nurse the baby, because I nurse him often :) as he gets older, scheduling becomes easier and more predictable. Also on days I have errands to run, schedules go out the window. No biggie. Church nights/days are a bit different too.
Mom's daily routine with 4 little kids
MORNING
5:45am
Wake up
Brush teeth
Get dressed
Get coffee
Pray/Read bible
Nurse baby
Start breakfast/lunches
Empty dishwasher (I always want an empty sink!)
Get 5yo ready for school
See husband and 5yo off
Throw in load of laundry
Get 2 & 4yo situated & fed
Nurse baby
Put dinner in the crock pot
Home school 4yo preschool, 2yo color (T/Thurs)
MID-MORNING/AFTERNOON
11am
Go on walk/run w 3 little ones, 2 in stroller 1 on bike (Couch to 5K, M/W. Saturday daddy watches boys while I run.)
Pick up 5yo from school
Make/serve lunch (leftovers, already made stew, or frozen burritos I made earlier in week or sandwich and fruit)
Nurse baby
Put 2yo & baby down for nap
Big boys quiet time while mommy works 1-1.5 hours (boys watch movie or color/read)
Nurse baby
1 Chore (bathroom, dust, iron ect)
Big boys outside time, baby back down for a nap
Switch loads, fold clothes RIGHT away at the dryer (do daily smaller loads so this is easier), damp a rag & wipe down washer and dryer, let whites soak in bleach overnight/soak cloth diapers/or do a regular load
2yo wakes up, give boys a snack
Put laundry away, boys play time
Clean up time! Boys and mommy clean up (all toys, boys room), light a candle, put on music
Vacuum (put Arm & Hammer baking soda carpet cleaner on carpet first...smells amazing!)
Fold blankets
Tidy up
EVENING
Set table
Any dinner prep needed
Fill sink with hot soapy water, put any pans or crock pot in it
Dad's home!
Serve dinner, give everyone vitamins
Clean up dinner table, wash w soapy rag
Put all dishes in soapy water
Wipe counters
Sweep floor
Prep coffee, set timer on coffee pot for morning
Soak beans in crock pot or stew bones for bone broth over night (a couple nights a week)
Rinse dishes, load dishwasher & start it
Boys play time (usually playing with daddy)
BEDTIME
Bathe all 4 boys
Brush teeth, comb hair
PJ's
Story time
Read boys bible
Pray
Lights out for boys
Mom & Dad read, watch a movie or show on Netflix with hot apple cider or tea :) (well I drink a hot drink!!)
Feeew. Sounds tiring. But this is my life right now! And it can change and will change as we add in sports next season and as they get older!! Also want to sign up for another half marathon so training will really throw in a change! Not everyday goes according to plan...obviously :)
I am still adjusting to four boys, and some nights the baby is up a lot and I sleep in and let daddy do breakfast and lunches and get Shane ready. It happens. But this is my goal :) otherwise I get so behind on everything in life. Ehum....Like right now there is a huge pile of laundry waiting to be folded...wish I would have folded all 3 loads right when they were out of the dryer! LOL ;-)
"Let all things be done decently and in order." 1 Corinthians 14:40
Something I've been learning since I got married 7+ years ago and realized I was far from orderly! :)